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Therapy for Complex Trauma, Narcissistic Abuse and Grief and Loss


From Shadows to Strength: Embracing the Journey of Complex Trauma to Empowered Growth
Complex trauma can feel like a shadow that envelops your life, affecting your perception of self and the world around you. However,...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
15 minutes ago3 min read
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Navigating Challenges in Narcissistic Relationships
Navigating a relationship with a narcissistic partner can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. The emotional rollercoaster...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
1 day ago4 min read
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Finding Emotional Healing After Loss
Experiencing a loss is one of the most challenging aspects of life. Whether it’s the passing of a loved one, a separation, or even the...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
2 days ago3 min read
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Uncovering Strength: How Therapy Can Transform Your Family After Divorce
Divorce or significant family changes can feel like a tumultuous journey. For many, the challenges that arise during this time can be...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jun 114 min read
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Rekindling Passion in Long-Term Relationships
In long-term relationships, the initial spark of passion can sometimes fade, leaving couples feeling disconnected and unfulfilled....

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jun 44 min read
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Conquering Empathy Fatigue: A Path to Resilience in Trauma Recovery
In a world filled with complex emotions and overwhelming experiences, supporting others can sometimes feel heavy. This feeling, known as...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
May 283 min read
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How Complex Trauma Can Strain Communication In a Marriage
In any marriage, effective communication is the heartbeat of a loving relationship. However, when complex trauma enters the picture, the...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
May 214 min read
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The Quiet Struggles of Complex Trauma and Its Hidden Impact on Daily Anxiety and Depression
Complex trauma often goes unnoticed, yet it can significantly affect an individual's daily life. Unlike a single traumatic event, complex...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
May 64 min read
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Breaking Free: Your Empowering Guide to Safely Exit a Narcissistic Abuse Relationship
Woman safely leaving a narcissistic relationship Leaving a narcissistic abuse relationship is one of the toughest choices you may ever...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
May 14 min read
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Breaking Free: Decoding the Cycle of Trauma Bonding in Narcissistic Relationships
In the intricate web of human relationships, the dynamics of love, affection, and control can sometimes intertwine in ways that leave...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Apr 294 min read
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The Lasting Effects of a Narcissistic Parent on Future Relationship Dynamics
Growing up with a narcissistic parent can shape how individuals form relationships throughout their lives. The emotional imprint left by...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Apr 244 min read
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Play Therapy: Is it Only for Children?
Many people picture play therapy as a child-centered practice, filled with children playing with toys in a therapist's office. This view...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Apr 154 min read
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Uncovering the Power of Brainspotting: A New Approach to Healing Complex Trauma
Complex trauma can leave deep, lasting effects on individuals, impacting their emotional, psychological, and physical well-being. Many...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Apr 14 min read
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Reclaiming Your True Self: Rising From the Shadows of Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic abuse can quietly dismantle one’s sense of self. It often leaves victims feeling lost and confused about who they truly are....

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Mar 174 min read
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The Unexpected Connection Between Sensory Overwhelm and PTSD: Exploring Uncharted Territory
Anxiety and overwhelm. PTSD. Sensory overwhelm can hit hard, making a person's day feel unbearable. For many, it may just be an...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Mar 74 min read
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Unraveling the Depths: Exploring EMDR for Complex Trauma and the Path to Healing
Complex trauma can be overwhelming, often stemming from prolonged stressors like childhood abuse or ongoing neglect. The scars it leaves...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Mar 54 min read
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The Unseen Battles: Navigating Lifelong Reactivity in Complex Trauma Survivors
Complex trauma, often rooted in early and prolonged exposure to overwhelming stressors, has a profound and lasting impact on those who...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Feb 254 min read
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How to Navigate Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: A Guide for Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Divorce
Co-parenting can be a daunting task, especially when a narcissist is involved. Their tendency to manipulate, control, and create drama...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Feb 105 min read
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Unraveling the Pain: Navigating Healing from Betrayal Trauma
Experiencing betrayal can feel like having your world turned upside down. Betrayal trauma strikes at the heart of our trust, leaving...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jan 233 min read
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Unveiling the Unseen Strength: Navigating Post-Traumatic Growth with Confidence and Resilience
In the face of trauma, it can often feel like the darkness will never lift. Yet, within that darkness, there exists a profound capacity...

Courtney Loyola, MA, LPC
Jan 143 min read
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